
With 29 days left until my due date of August 19th, I have officially entered the "nesting phase." It all started with my Mom's arrival last Thursday (as in a little over a week ago.) My Mom is seriously a saint. She cleaned out literally every cupboard, drawer, and closet in my house and steam cleaned everything from sinks to toilets to floorboards. I seriously felt like I had a maid on hand. I tried to help the best I could, but it came with a bit of complaining. (I'm really getting good at whining and complaining these days! As well as grunting, gasping, and heaving everytime I get up, bend over, or reach for anything!) Anyway, we deep cleaned through her departure on Tuesday and it left me feeling so much more organized. We also stocked my freezer
with homemade marinara and cookies that should hopefully passify Boston for atleast a couple months.So ever since she left I have had the "nesting bug." Not that my house is spotless, because it never stays clean with Boston for more than about 2 minutes, but I've done a great job at stocking up on supplies so I can barricade myself in my house after Jocelyn is born if I want to. (I'm a little overwhelmed about the thought of dragging two children out and about so I may need some encouragement to join society once again after my little girl is born.) I'm also such a scheduler and I keep thinking how one of them will always need to go down for a nap, making long trips nearly impossible. I hope I can find the organization and schedule at some point after her birth, but I am prepared that it may take awhile. So, back to the "nesting" and leaving my OCD behind, I shopped tediously with Costco coupons on Saturday, spending an unspeakable amount, but stocking my shelves with a 6 month to 1 year
supply of laundry detergent, dish soap, cleaning supplies, diapers (ok a couple months on those.. maybe one!), wipes to last a lifetime, and Boston's favorite treats. Then.... I hit Smiths where I gathered pasta of every shape and size, every type of bean you can imagine, rice, diced tomatoes, mandarin oranges, etc. etc. etc. My pantry is completely stuffed and the food storage has moved downstairs into the storage there to accomodate my purpetual spending. All in all it feels good to have such a well stocked house, although I am sure I will hit Smiths and Walmart again this week because one of Boston's favorite and only words is "juice" so I need about 24 bottles on hand and I still have a small list of baby essentials to buy so a trip to Target is pretty much a sure thing. (I'm getting really really good at spending money if you can't tell!) I told JT I am ready for the flood!
Also with this nesting ofcourse comes the putting together of the nursery. I still have some work to do. (actually JT has some work to do, in switching out the cribs because you see the base of Boston's crib matches Jocelyns dresser and vice versa and we can't have that! Plus, I still want to make a black out curtian/shade for Jocey's window and find the perfect shelf to go above her dresser.) (Oh and I know what you are all thinking, "why does she have 2 cribs... well my sleep bible says to encourage toddlers sleeping in cribs until age three because that way you don't have to chase them through the night and by 3 they should understand you when you tell them to stay put. Plus, Boston loves his crib and has never tried to escape it and I reference my sleep Bible ten times more often than the real bible so how dare I go against the sleep lady's rules!!) But, for the most part the nursery is done and I love to sneak into her room, sit in her rocker and just envelope myself in all things pink. I can not even describe my excitement over having a daughter. The thought instantly brings a smile to my face! On the other hand... I am finding myself loving my little guy more and more each day. It makes me sad to think of it not just being the two of us during the day and I'm trying to cherish every moment of him while he is an only child.

11 comments:
Seriously...if you keep stressing out like you are, you are going to have her here any day now. Goodness, I read your blog and it stressed me out.
You just need to relax. Go to the spa and just get away.
I love you and can't wait to meet your little girl!
Breath Carly, breath. : ) I think you and I have a lot in common in the department of freaking out about having to get things done. I HATE wating til the last minute and it drives me nuts until things are finished. I keep thinking in my head ok I still need to do this and this and this and this and it wont stop til it is finished. Oh the joys of being a woman. I wish we were closer to help give a helping hand. I can only imagine how tough it will be with a toddler and a new baby. Then you see those women with 5 kids. Ahhh!
It sounds like you have it all together to me. I wish I had a food storage like that. I swear I go to the store and shop and shop and shop but I still use it all in one week then I am back there again.
I too can't wait to see and meet cute little Jocy. I hope my next one is a girls too. I am excited to have a girl. But not for a few years, I don't think I am ready yet. But knowing my luck I will get all boys. Oh well like I have said if I had to have all of one kind I would want them to be boys.
Love ya and miss ya.
I agree with keeping your munchkins in a crib until 3 years old. I did with Landon adn we never had a single problem with him getting out of bed. The longer they stay contained the better! Wow, your mom rocks! She is such a sweetheart! She was so cute in the mornings with Boston out on the front porch. Mommies are the best! Your nursery is absolutely darling! I love it! The matching crib issue would drive me nuts as well...get JT on it! If he needs any help have him come use J. You are looking so cute and I'm excited to meet her in a couple weeks!
Don't you worry a thing about the challenge of two kiddos. It is different and has its challenges, but I have loved having two kids. Having a boy and a girl is awesome. It can't get better than that. Way to go on the food storage and what an awesome mom. Hang in there. You are so close, and you are going to love having that little girl. I bet Boston will be a great big brother!
I'm really not stressing so much, so I'm sorry my post came off that way. It's more keeping myself busy because I am too excited! Ever since my sister in-law Kelli had her little girl I want mine here too! I'm just planning and organizing to make the time pass quickly; and it's kind of working!
Alright!! Everyone told me that having 2 kids is easy...that I wouldn't have a problem. They are LYING! ITS HARD to have two! LOL.
But the good thing is, you catch on really quickly. And that special power that women have, of multi-tasking kicks in big time!!
I'm not a scheduler, but I NEED to be. Especially with my Bridger, it would help him out a LOT. So please give me some of your "OCD" advice and help me!
Plus I am truly jealous that you are so stocked up!! I WANT to be that stocked up but haven't found the time or really don't have the motivation to clean out my pantry to make room. ugh....
Carly you are gonna have to take a picture of the nursery so we can all see!! I'm so excited for you and your baby girl!! I know exactly what you mean about being sad that its not only going to be the two of you anymore. I had that with my Jocelyn too. Now I can't think of when I had just Jocelyn. It seems like I've always had Jocelyn and Bridger. PLUS they play so well together!! (Also fight a lot...you wouldn't think!) but its so cute!
I didn't think you sounded stressed out just a happy mom to be doing her nesting!! I wish I had the energy I had sometimes when I was pregnant! Actually I take that back!!LOL.
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I need to come over and see all your fun stuff!! I cant wait to see her!! It is coming so fast!!
good for you! seriously so much better than I am! I guess I am just having to face the fact that I will have no choice but to get out of the house after she is born to take the other 2 girls to school. You have no idea how nice that sounds right now just to shut myself inside and hibernate after she is born, at least for a little while. I am still so amazed at how organized you are! Not much longer now!!!
The biggest blessing is that when Jocelyn is born she will sleep A LOT! That will give you the extra time to spend with Boston. And Hopefully she will like her carseat so it won't be as hard to go out and about. My baby sleeps better in her carseat during the day because it seems like we are always on the go (I'm not sure if that is a good thing or not.) Having 2 kids is sure a big change and it will make your usual scheudle disappear but eventually you'll have a whole new routine to live by. Happy Nesting!
Okay two kids was a little rough at first for me but then they became best friends and it is all worth it. Bossy will love Jocelyn. By the way..cutest nursery ever!! I love the polka dots!! Please know that I am here for you when you have stressed moments. Running errands was a challenge when I first had two, so please know you can leave your kids with me if you need a break!! Hehe, you will have kids not a kid. haha. Okay I am a nerd. I just cannot wait. How on earth will you carry two kids on your non-hips?
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